Jeevan has been a wonderful friend for a very long time in Blogville and has captured my attention and my heart for the very kind-spirited and brave soul that he is. He has never been mean to anyone, never said anything to hurt a single soul and has always been a gentleman in his thoughts, words and deeds. He sets a great example to me cos you know how cranky, shallow and needy I can get sometimes hehe. Jeevan comes all the way from India, speaks Tamil and his blog represents his rich culture along with his beautiful, free and expressive heart. There is also another very special thing about Jeevan and that is that he suffers from Muscular Dystrophy, which is an illness that makes a person lose muscle strength which affects his independent mobility. Though Jeevan suffers from it, he doesn't see it as a life-sentence. He just gets on with life and deals with it very maturely. To go through something like that at a age so young...I don't think it's easy. But Jeevan shows us all how wonderful life can be if we all try to put aside the difficulties that we have been dealt with, and just concentrate on living one day at a time. To me that is a very BIG personality. And I honor and respect Jeevan for who is, for how he copes with his demons and for how he shines brightly in the darkest pits of his tough experiences. He is a star and a great inspiration to all of us. MWACKKZ Jeevan! Dija feel it? ;-). This song is dedicated especially to your genuine and free spirit...Jeevan means LIFE in Sanskrit, so this fav Tamil song of mine fits you perfectly. Uyire means life...enjoy!
- Keshi
u will find Jeevan here
u will find Jeevan here
3 comments:
Hi Jim!
I think that that(and not only that) Keshi's post should be published in in the media too.
I'd known from my first meeting with Jeevan, that he is a Man with a great personality.
Happy Easter to you!
Jeevan said...
I am wordless. I stopped in silence where I am smiling here larger; that I have took a place in keshi’s heart that too closer :) it was more encouraging and you words decorates my life. If there wasn’t blogging in this world, whether I would have grown this much mentally is doubtful. These two and a half years with you in blogging is very special to me and it is not praise, but true, yours sharing in blog influences in many ways in my life. Thanks so much dear friend, happy to be your buddy and being mate to a lovely girl who cares for friendship and love. Cheers!
If we know what is happening is true and never going to change unless a change is there, It’s like making foolish our life and to lie on our life when we are existing complaining non stop. Even though some are matured to handle problems, sufferings, sometimes the depressions and stress send them to come out of complaining.
"that means you are better off than a blind person who don't even know what they themselves look like, right?" Very right keshi! They make me wonder often to show a life in darkness, but I feel to tell we are sharing those visions, so taking care there life is our duty.
"If you're sad that you don't have your own children yet, think about the great many number of orphaned kids out there." I wish every mind make possible to look at those children, when we look back our parents for us and feeling us at there place we could realize how important the parents for them.
I look over there some lines are like taken from my life! The Hariharan’s voice bliss that song behind the drizzle backdrop. Loved this Uyirea with warming keshi kiss;) Thanks dear.
3:25 PM
Jeevan said...
Krystyna – Thanks so much for taking me as your hero dear :)I must be blessed to have such beautiful heats as friend here to Carrie me along with them! Even the words are not put to replace the tamil words, by to read its flow is beautiful. Thanks krish, hope you have a pleasant Easter festival and take care.
3:32 PM
Jeevan said...
ALok, Awati Sethi,Sameera and Cinderella, Thank you so much for those kindly as well as encouraging words about me. I wish you all everything success and best :)
3:35 PM
curryegg said...
If you're complaining about not having someone to call you beautiful every single day, that means you are better off than a blind person who don't even know what they themselves look like, right?
I completely agree with this... But oopss... that reminds me not to force someone to say.. "curryegg, you're beautiful"..
:(
4:57 PM
BUMBLE!!! said...
You echo the good Doctor (seuss that is).
http://finance.ba.ttu.edu/bauguess/FIN4323/dr.seuss.htm
If you can't link to it from there, it's "Did I ever tell you how lucky you are?"
5:11 PM
Satish Bolla said...
well keshi girl, i've never read all your posts. i was reading your blog for the past couple of months only but covered a majority of the posts. but this one is simply the best. i was so moved by your post that i started recollecting all the recent events which i whined about and found most of them to be so unnecessary.
your concept of "And the Flying Kissee of the day is...." is a very novel one. i wish jeevan a great life ahead of him and i hope he never loses his courage.
jeevan, we are all with you.
7:37 PM
Ghost Particle said...
Just DEAL with it. could find a better advice/ instruction for people nowadays. damn i even know whole countries who could use this advice.
there are so much more to come, long days ahead and we still want to find the tiniest problems in our lives, others to make is big and then ultimately destroy the confidence they have or we have.
You said well, the world is full of less fortunate, they wont cant seem to make things happen, but they are happy because they are trying to make it happen. the solution is there, people jst need to capture it, use it, spread it.
JEEVAN
We have Jeevan in all of us. My brother, he makes not to quit what I am doing. We all should be inspired by his ambitions and desire to do what he wants to do and how beautifully he sees the world.
7:38 PM
Iceman said...
About "The End", watch out for April! A new beginning! 4 me as well as 4 my blog... :D Someones got a gr8 makeover of life!
9:25 PM
Mel Avila Alarilla said...
Everybody has his/her own complaint in life, that's very normal. But for a person to keep on whining unnecessarily is no longer normal. He/she becomes a veritable cry baby who must always be consoled by someone. Thanks for the interesting post. God bless.
9:37 PM
krystyna said...
Excellent points, Keshi!
Life can be so much simpler if people would be thankful for what they've got, as General boy said.
I like to sing from the morning. It make my good mood.
What is your favorite song to sing in the morning shower?
I wish you much peace and love!
10:48 PM
Nora said...
You're an amazing woman Keshi. x
Nora
10:55 PM
c e e d y said...
Kudos to Jeevan - great going bud
and Keshi - now wasnt the length of the post a whine about not whining...LOL
great thoughts - agree with you - we all look for the greener patches of grass on the other side - instead of cultivating our own barren fields.
1:03 AM
vishesh said...
ppl whine and complain only when they don't suffer from any actual pain....pain is the only thing which shows us we are alive...sans pain,we all go into our own dream lands...
1:28 AM
Ps said...
Lovely post Keshi.You are so very right in hat you said that i am convinced about my theory of losing a parent making people totally change their outlook on life, making them focu on positives.
It was really nice to read baout Jeevan too.
3:18 AM
just mad said...
one of the best posts - i had ever read ( of all your posts )
Great !!!
one question - How much time do you take a write a post ?
Just curious - approximately how much time do you take ?
5:09 AM
Niyara - Asian Rocxs said...
It's true keshi about thw whinging about things that arn't always the most important thing, coz people elsewhere are suffering with real hardship. I know of a family of young children who recently lost their mother and it makes me think twice about being ungrateful towards mine.
10:35 AM
Solitaire said...
I am back!!!!!!
This is so true. I keep learning these valuable lessons every single day when I interact with my clients. Some of their lives are so horrible, that I wonder if my complaints about my roommate are even worth giving a second thought.
I also do not believe in the statement, "People make their own destiny". I do think that at some point our decisions and actions will influence our paths in life. However, there are certain things that we have no control over..such as suffering from an ailment that appears out of nowhere.
People often say that when you want to feel better, look at the people who are suffering more than you. But I think that everyone's pain is distressing to them because they cannot really FEEL the pain of the other person who may be suffering more than them. Hence the whines!!
I know of many people who whine their guts out..especially because I am a psychologist. And as much as I try to be patient with them, I cannot!!!
Great post!
10:50 AM
Thanks so much Jim :) u have much blogs and difficult to find out this page.
let me know which is ur current one u post often?
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